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Japan is one of the most densely populated countries
in the world with 125 million people on 4 main islands using less than
40% of the available land . 99% of Japan's population are ethnic
Japanese; all non Japanese must register every year with the police and
do not have full citizenship rights.
The Japanese place great worth on nonverbal language
or communication. A person is expected to sense another person's feelings
on a subject without asking. A person's inability to interpret feelings
is seen as insensitivity.
A bow is the traditional greeting for Japanese.Much
can be said with a proper bow.To show respect or humility one must bow
lower than the other person.Between Japanese and non Japanese a handshake
is often preferred since the people do not know each other.
Japanese society is group oriented. Loyalty to the group
and to one's superiors takes priority over your own personal feelings.
Loyalty, devotion, and cooperation are valued over aggressiveness. Conformity,
even in appearance, is typical of the Japanese. The general rule is to
act similar to, or in harmony with, the crowd. A person's actions reflect
on the family, and in many Japanese homes grandparents live with
the family . Families usually have fewer than 3 children.
Politeness is extremely important. As a result,
the word "Yes" may be a polite version of "I am listening" or "I understand"
, and "No" is seldom used - but "I will think about it" can mean "No".
Time is often required for decisions and agreements in business. Japanese
may be more interested in the person or company they are dealing with than
the actual details of the deal. Formality in language is also present.
"Ohiogazaimasu" is a respectful "Good Morning", but "Ohio" is used with
friends, and "Yahoh" is slang for "Hey!" . "Konichiwa" can be "Good Afternoon"
or less formally "Hello", and "Genki" is slang for "How are you ?"
Family last names end in SAN , and using first names
is only for relatives and friends.
It is impolite to yawn in public. A person should
sit up straight with both feet on the floor . Waving is done with the palm
Down. Laughter is not necessarily joy or amusement, it may be embarassment.
Chewing gum in public is considered impolite. Young girls often walk hand
in hand.
An unannounced visit to a Japanese home is uncommon.
Shoes and coats are removed in the hallway before going into a Japanese
home. Slippers are worn throughout the house but removed also before going
into rooms having floor mats. Guests are given the most comfortable seats
and when offered a meal a guest should hesitate slightly before accepting
it. Giving compliments may embarrass the hosts and may be denied out of
modesty. Gifts are taken to a home when visiting
( usually food or drink), seldom nicknacks because they would clutter
the simple design of the Japanese home. Most Japanese practice a
combination of Buddhism and Shinto and have small shrines in their homes.
Only about 1 percent of the population is Christian.
It is considered bad manners for an adult to walk
while eating. In a traditional meal, Japanese eat by bringing the food
bowl to their chest and not by bending down to the table.Chopsticks (hashi)
are used for traditional Japanese food, but knives, forks, and spoons
are used for Western food. Meals usually consist of tea, rice, fresh vegetables,
seafood, fruit, and small portions of meat ( Japan has to import 1/2 of
its food supply- especially meat).
Baseball (Beseboro) was brought to Japan in the
1870's by an American and is Japan's national sport and VERY competitive
at all levels.Older Japanese still enjoy Japan's ancient forms of drama
- Bunraku ( puppet theatre), Noh, and Kabuki.
Japanese take a national holiday at the end of December
until the about the 3rd of January in honor of the New Year. Other holidays
are Adults Day(January 15th)- when all those who will turn 20 (the
age when they can vote) during the year are honored, Greenery Day(April
29)- a day to celebrate nature's beauty, Children's Day(May 5),
Boy's
Day celebrates boys with national kite flying, and Girls Day
(March 3)celebrates girls by having them show and tell favorite dolls,
Bon
Festival(August 15)- when people go to ancester's homes to welcome
their ancestor's spirits with bonfires, and Emperor's Birthday(
Emperor Akahito's is December 23)- the emperor is the head of state but
has no power to govern the people.
Although Japan is very successful in business and
industry, the cost of living is high (the currency is the yen) and causes
many Japanese to work long hours, commute long distances, and live in crowded
housing areas.
99% of all Japanese can read and write. Education
is free and mandatory from age 6 to 15. Tuition must be paid for grades
10-12 and college. Students attend school Monday through Saturday (morning)
with one Saturday off each month. Many students attend after- school school
( juku ) to prepare them for difficult entrance exams into top rated high
schools or univerities. These schools are often from 5-9 P.M. three nights
a week and 4 hours on Saturday afternoons and charge tuition.Graduation
from a top high school gives a person a better chance of getting into a
top university. Graduation from a top university usually guarantees a top
job.